LIVING LOVE AND LOGIC TIP #5

Guiding children to solve their problems can be effective when using the following 5 steps!

Step 1: Always provide a strong dose of empathy and listen.

Step 2: Ask, "What do you think you are going to do?'

Step 3: When they shrug their shoulders, ask, "Would you like to hear what some other kids try?"

Step 4: Give them two or three possible solutions. After each, ask, "How will that work for you?"

Step 5: Allow them to learn from the happy or sad consequences of their choice.

 When we allow them to fix their own mistakes children gain the confidence to know they can be problem solvers! That realization makes EVERYONE happy!